Obituary of Alan E. Sterling
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CANASTOTA . . . Alan Edward Sterling, 79, surrounded by his loving family, passed away on December 17, 2024, following a courageous battle with a variety of health conditions. He was born on March 12, 1945, and was the second son of the late William C. Sterling and Elizabeth (Lewis) Sterling. Alan grew up on and helped to run the family farm on Sterling Road in Oneida Valley, prior to moving outside of Canastota to reside for many years on Bruce Road, where he and his brother, Bill, owned and operated a dairy farm for many years. He was a 1963 graduate of Oneida High School, and later received a bachelor's degree in history from Utica College of Syracuse University. Alan, a.k.a. 'Big Al,' a fierce competitor, played basketball for both Oneida High School and Utica College where he excelled in both play and sportsmanship, earning Tri-Valley league MVP while in high school. He also played for many years in the local municipal league helping mentor younger players. Alan was also very musical in his youth, playing the tuba in the Oneida school's band, and also playing bass guitar in a local musical group. As a proud direct descendent of Palatine German immigrants circa 1700, and Revolutionary and Civil War soldiers, Alan expressed his love and passion for those time periods by offering and contributing to several scholarly books, papers, and videos. It was his desire to 'set the record straight' by delving into historical, personal, and battleground facts, previously overlooked in other publications. His papers are available and distributed by local historical societies, including the book he wrote "Defenders of Liberty." Alan is survived by two daughters, Brenna (John) Borgognoni of Mt. Vernon, WA, and Kara (Anthony) Bach of McHenry, IL, and a son, Christopher (Michelle) Sterling of Warners, NY; his brother, Rhys ( Joyce) Sterling of Pullman, WA, five grandchildren, Sean Sterling, Amelia Sterling, Kendra Borgognoni, Trenton Borgognoni, and Adalyn Bach; as well as several great-grandchildren, nieces, and nephews. He is also survived by many dear friends and history buffs he acquired over his lifetime. Alan was predeceased by his older brother, William T Sterling, who passed away on September 9, 2022. Alan will be forever loved and remembered as a kind and generous soul. He was so very proud of his children and grandchildren. His family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks and immense gratitude to Jan, Rick, Laurel, Billy, Jim, Mark, Becky, Danielle, Marie, and all others who reached out to him with love and friendship over the years. For those wishing to pay their respects to Alan, calling hours will be held from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. on Saturday, December 21, 2024, at the J. Homer Ball Funeral Home, Inc., 201 James Street, Canastota, with a funeral service to follow. The Rev. William M. Wilcox will officiate. Burial will be in Oneida Valley Cemetery, Canastota. In his memory, contributions may be made to the Clockville United Methodist Church, PO Box 15, Clockville, NY 13043, with envelopes available at the funeral home.
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Diane Meacham (Preas)
So very sorry to hear this news and especially during this time of year has to be very hard on Al's family and friends. Rest In Peace Al.
Roslyn Carnevale (McConnell)
So sad. Al was a prince of a guy. Kind,charming and handsome. I have fond memories of him,and he will be missed. Giving you a big hug in my mind. Hope you can feel it in heaven, Al. God bless you.Roz
Myron Peebles
Surprised and saddened to learn about Al. I will miss our phome conversations (infrequent). He was very interesting to talk with and had an excellent memory of the old days and our classmates. I actually had thoughts of calling him the other day. I will miss Al -and the information he was able to share with me. Myron
Mary Lou Herrington (Laguzza)
I am very sad to hear of Al's passing. He was a very courageous, thoughtful, amazing person.. I baked Xmas cookies with the thoughts of sending a tray to Al just like I did last year. His enjoyment and appreciation was well worth the effort. Rest in peace, pain free and may God bless.
Mary Lou
Leslie Krieke
I doubt that any of us ever heard a negative comment about Al for his entire life. I didn't get to see him often but because we shared the same birthday it helped us stay in touch over the years. If anyone had a reason to say why me, he did, but he never did. As we keep becoming less young we never know when that time comes for us. May he rest in pease.
Janet Preston (Heffron)
Rest in peace, Al. Al was a kind, generous, interesting man. We will miss you!
David Kiner
Al was one of my closest friends in high school. I remember double-dating with Al for our Senior Ball. I have a great photo of us standing in my living room in Durhamville, all dressed up, on our way to pick up our dates. Fifty years later we sat together at our high school reunion. I deeply respected him, a man of courage, honesty, and hope. We shared a great deal together. We will see him again. Blessings Al thank you for being my fiend. David
Kathy Healy (Fencil)
I was sad to read of Al's passing, like so many of you who knew him well. It was nice to see a photo from our recent gathering I believe. His obituary was astounding. I did not know him well at all, but certainly see the loss was mine from the lovely reflections here. Tony and Diane we owe you our thanks for keeping our past connections alive and sadly current.
Sharon Swetmon (Havener)
I am so sorry to hear of Al's passing..I remember him as a tall handsome boy in school. I hate seeing many of my classmates passing. May he rest in peace. Sharon Swetmon Havener